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Finding Emotional Balance: The Power of DBT Skills

  • Writer: Jessica LaJoie
    Jessica LaJoie
  • Apr 22
  • 2 min read





Do your emotions sometimes feel like they’re calling the shots—leaving you exhausted, reactive, or unsure how to cope? If so, you’re not alone. Feeling things deeply isn’t a flaw—it’s part of being human.


But when emotions become overwhelming or hard to manage, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers practical, research-based tools to help you find steadiness, even in life’s storms.

At Grind to Growth Therapy, I use DBT-informed support to help clients build emotional strength, relational confidence, and inner calm—without having to shut down or “push through.”



What Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)?


Originally developed for individuals experiencing intense emotions or chronic dysregulation, DBT is a structured, skills-based therapy that blends:


  • Mindfulness – staying present and non-judgmental

  • Distress tolerance – coping well in crisis situations

  • Emotion regulation – understanding and managing powerful emotions

  • Interpersonal effectiveness – communicating with clarity, confidence, and boundary awareness

Think of it as a toolbox of real-life strategies for dealing with real-life emotional challenges.



DBT Helps You If You’re Struggling With:


  • Emotional overwhelm or outbursts

  • Relationship tension or fear of abandonment

  • Intense mood swings or anxiety

  • Chronic self-criticism or shame

  • Feeling reactive, “too much,” or emotionally exhausted


You don’t need to shut your feelings off—you just need the right guidance to navigate them in a more grounded, self-respecting way.



What You’ll Learn in DBT-Informed Therapy


In our sessions, you’ll gain tools to respond differently—even when emotions are high.

Together, we’ll explore DBT skills that allow you to:

  • Pause before reacting in anger or panic

  • Soften harsh self-talk with self-compassion

  • Cope with distress without numbing, avoiding, or spiraling

  • Set boundaries and ask for your needs with confidence

  • Stay connected to your values—even on tough days


You’ll practice integrating these tools into everyday life, so they become second nature over time—not just theory, but actual change.



This Approach Works—And You Are Worth the Work


Emotional intensity isn’t something to be ashamed of. It means you care deeply, feel deeply, and want more from life and your relationships.

DBT therapy gives you the structure and support to thrive—not just survive.

No matter where you are in your healing right now, there is space for your emotions—and there’s a way forward.


 
 
 

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